What is Dating?

Dating. This came across my mind today when I was out with my friends and I was talking to them about my relationship and I couldn't really explain it unless I have some proper explanation on it. And maybe many people were unaware or whatsoever. But I'm here to clarify about it because I think there is a need to.

So basically for me, dating have different meanings.It may mean a boy and a girl is in a relationship already or a form of human courtship consisting of social activities with the aim of each accessing the other's suitability as a partner in a relationship. I took this from wikipedia, to fully understand what it means and how this word works. Cedric and I held hands before we were really together, and I don't see anything wrong with that. I've been out to dates with him beforehand and it is perfectly normal. And when we started holding hands, we knew we liked each other. So what's wrong? You need to go out on dates in order to realize that person is right for you before you foolishly get into a relationship don't you think? To me, holding hands and hugging is perfectly fine.

I do not find it an excuse that because we're in Singapore, there's no such thing of holding hands or whatever before two people get together. That's completely bullcrap. It's like saying Singaporeans are stupid enough to not understand the form of dating. And I hope people will not kick up a big fuss about it because there is no need to do that. It makes you look silly.

I don't know why I'm explaining this, it's like explaining something very common sense. But I believe always do what you feel is right, and I believed what I did was fine and I find nothing wrong with that. It is through dates will you realize if you like that person, if you two are really suitable. As I've said, get your facts right :)

I was pretty upset today because duh something made me upset. Can you imagine someone who are friends with you for years till NOW who saw you and just pretended you weren't there at all?! Like what.the.fuck. At least have the decency and basic courtesy to say HI? Is that a very motherfucking hard word ? Are you mute? I'm not going to say his name, because he's just being a retard. I'm so disappointed in you. Now I cannot even bring myself to miss you guys anymore.